Planning for your Digital Death

February 11, 2009

All grown-ups know about the importance of estate planning. Even if we don’t always heed the good advice, we know that we need a will, life insurance, and an estate plan, and we know what we need to do to ensure that our money and property is distributed efficiently and in accordance with our wishes. But how many of us have given much thought to our digital estate? Riddle me this- what happens to your blog if you die? What happens to your Facebook account? What about Twitter, MySpace, and most importantly, eHarmony? The answer depends largely on how well you’ve prepared. While the law has developed a few hundred years of precedent addressing what happens to your real property and livestock, it has not yet evolved to effectively deal with questions of online data or identities.

Email Accounts

As a general rule, you own your email and electronic correspondence and you can leave this to whomever you choose in your will. However, if your family or executors don’t know your email passwords, they may have trouble retrieving it. Email providers have struggled with how to deal with this issue and to balance privacy and security concerns with giving access to grieving families. In 2004 the family of Justin Ellsworth, a young Marine killed in Iraq, tried to get access to the contents of his Yahoo! account. Yahoo! refused, and a prolonged lawsuit resulted. The court ultimately ordered Yahoo! to provide the family with copies of the emails contained in the account, although they didn’t actually get electronic access to the account itself. Other web-based email providers have taken a similar approach, albeit without having to be forced by the courts to do so- Gmail and Hotmail will both give access to email contents upon proof of death and proof of relationship.

It’s quaint to think of your email archive like a long forgotten box of love letters from the war, pages yellowed and corners tattered. But the reality is a little more complex- do you actually want your family to be able to read your email after you’re gone? I’m not sure that I do. While some old messages may bring some joy or shed some light on aspects of my life, there are a lot of messages that are nobody’s business but mine and the transvestite ladyboy hooker I sent them to. Do you want your family to have access to ribald jokes and gossip sent between friends? To e-fights (or e-love, for that matter) between you and your lover? To receipts from all those adult sites you subscribe to? Probably not. But do you have a plan in place to make sure this doesn’t happen?

Facebook and Social Networking Accounts

Facebook and other social networking accounts are a little different than email accounts as the information on your profile isn’t as private as your emails- your profile is accessible and viewable by anyone who you’ve granted access. Your profile also appears as a friend of countless others, and will continue to appear until the account is either closed or your friends delete you. I’ll admit to a bit of e-voyeurism on my part- when I hear about a young person killed in the news, I have on at least one occasion searched for their Facebook profile just to see if it was still there and, if it’s an open profile, what has become of it. It’s morbidly fascinating to see the last few days of banality in someone’s life documented when you know the outcome. Silly status updates seem much more ominous, tagged pictures a little more haunting. For friends of the deceased, their Facebook page may be a source of comfort or a constant reminder of the loss. But how do you deal with it? Can you bring yourself to just delete your lost pal from your friends list? When is it appropriate? Who decides what happens to the account?

Myspace advises that their policy is to allow access to a deceased’s account upon verification of death, and a significant number of Myspace profiles remain active as memorials. There’s even an entire website dedicated to the Myspace profiles of the recently deceased. Facebook’s approach has been more restrictive- the original policy was to delete the account of a deceased one month after death. This was a controversial approach, and the family and friends of many deceased users protested. Facebook has since revised this to allow for the “memorialization” of accounts, where the accounts remain open as a tribute. There’s even a form you can use to report a user who has died . However, Facebook won’t release login information, so the account can’t be accessed, changed or updated and your final status update may forever remain “MGL is going to stuff his face with hot dogz!!!”.

Blogs and Online Content

An additional consideration for managing your digital estate arises for those of us who run blogs. Much like social networking and email accounts, online service providers such as Word Press and Blogger are reluctant to release login details, even to an executor. If your blog is hosted on your own server or through a third-party hosting service, the task of accessing the site is further complicated and in some cases may be close to impossible. And consider this- many bloggers set up articles to automatically post at a certain time in the future, allowing them to continue regular posting even while busy or on vacation. It is quite conceivable that a blog could continue to be updated and appear to be “live” even when the author isn’t. In one case, a blogger who committed suicide intentionally set his blog to continue posting after his death . Heck, I could be dead right now and you’d never know!

If you’ve got a blog, you’ve also got intellectual property including copyright to your writings and any trade-marks associated with your site. You may also have photographs, music, and other works that are published and maintained online. Copyright generally lasts for 50 years after the death of the author, so there’s a significant tail period of copyright protection that vests in your estate and, just like any other form of property, IP can be given to a specific individual in your will. If the will does not specify who gets your intellectual property, the standard rules of distribution apply. Exactly how much this IP will be worth varies greatly ( recently told me that MoneyGrubbingLawyer is worth a whopping $95!), but even more important than the monetary value may be the continued control and moral rights respecting your content. We each have preferences for what will happen to our content once we join the dearly departed, but without proper instruction to your executors or beneficiaries there is no way to know what will actually happen. I can personally guarantee that if the MoneyGrubbingLawyer site gets turned into a promotional site for the morning after pill, or my photographs get used in ads for feminine hygiene products, I will haunt the heck out of my heirs.

Planning Ahead for Life 2.0

For some people, this mishmash of postmortem procedures may suit you just fine. But if you’re like me, you may find them inadequate and unreliable. If that’s the case, here are a few suggestions for getting your e-affairs in order.

First, find a “digital executor”, someone who you trust to carry out your wishes with respect to your online personas. Who you choose may depend on what you want done- if you want your emails wiped so your wife doesn’t find out about your girlfriends, she may not be the best choice and a trusted and close friend may be a better option. It is also important to make sure that this person has the technological know-how to carry out your wishes. While it may make for an awkward situation, let this person know ahead of time that he or she has been selected as the lucky contestant to take care of your online estate.

Next, create a “digital will” telling your executor what you want done and giving him or her the information needed to carry out your wishes. This doesn’t remove the need for a real will, doesn’t require the help of a lawyer, and is likely not legally binding in any way. Instead, it’s a way to provide clear information on your wishes with respect to things that may fall outside your will (or just be overlooked) and make the processes much easier for all involved. Prepare a list of your email and social networking accounts along with your login data and brief details on how to access the accounts. If there is anyone from your online contacts that you want notified, write it down along with any other special instructions, such as what you want done with email and other data. Make it clear what data you want destroyed, what you want preserved, and how you want your representative to deal with your online presence. This list is going to contain very sensitive information, and you don’t want it falling into the wrong hands- don’t just jot it down on a piece of paper or save it on your hard drive. Consider keeping it on a password encrypted USB drive that you can update regularly and keep somewhere safe, but make sure your digital executor will know where to find it and what the password is. Don’t include banking information or accounts- your executor will be able to access your accounts without your online sign-in info, and having this data compromised could be disastrous.

Finally, it is important to remember that I totally made up the idea of a digital will and executor. They don’t exist at law, and your real will can override any designations you make. With that in mind, this is a good time to update your will to include specific provisions for who will take ownership of your intellectual property and any data that you leave behind. Discuss the options with your lawyer and let her know that you’ve made separate arrangements for access to your accounts, and see if there are any other changes that need to be made to give effect to your wishes.

Now if you’ll excuse me, I’m off to think up a witty and profound quip to have left as my final Tweet…

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Jason @ MyMoneyMinute 02.12.09 at 6:49 pm

MGL – this is a great point about your digital property. Most of us don’t think too much about it and it’s not talked about much.

This is a great resource to use to leave your friends & family prepared should the unfortunate happen.

Fabulously Broke 02.12.09 at 7:58 pm


I am going to delete everything I don’t want them to read now. *horrified*

But they’ll get the passwords to my banking info, PDA info etc… but not my emails. 😐

Not Dead Yet 02.13.09 at 10:39 am

There’s a program called a “Dead Man’s Switch” that will send out notifications and information automatically if you don’t log in for a certain period of time. I’m not sure how well it works, but it might be another option.

Mrs Embers 02.14.09 at 2:10 pm

I’ve actually wondered about this many times. I keep meaning to write my passwords down in one of my journals or somewhere and telling someone where they’re stored, but I still haven’t done it.

As for that “Dead Man’s Switch” program, I would totally forget to log in and scare the crap out of family and friends when they received notification that I was dead. Maybe not a good idea for me.

Revanche 02.17.09 at 6:11 pm

I was just working out how to deal with this recently. For the blog, I’d ask a trusted friend who reads to log in under an authorized name/password (sealed and sent at time of death/reading of the will/whatever is appropriate), and post a notification. For the emails, I’d rather no one ever had access to them, I wonder if there’s any way to make that wish known? Better yet, delete everything I don’t want out in the open, now! I’ve been in the process of decluttering and simplifying, this is just another step in setting my affairs in order.

unsexuada 04.23.09 at 10:59 pm

I’m the only one in this world. Can please someone join me in this life? Or maybe death…

glass vase 02.19.13 at 10:08 am

great post! thank you for sharing!I am forever saying that its hard to procure good help, but here is…I saw a writer talking about this on Tumblr and but…I think that you should write more on this topic.To the next. Cheers…

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